Creating Pathways to Better Communication ๐Ÿ˜€๐Ÿ’œ

Could you please explain it to me in more simple terms?

Be none the wiser – Video by Simon Sinek

Reading is the key to understanding our world. I am not here to change the system, I’m here to change our approaches. Change the people, and you change the system. We are in this together. The future is up to us.

โ€œThe world hates change, yet it is the only thing that has brought progress.โ€

Charles Ketteringย 

Lisa Ower mentions in her article hereย  ‘No matter what the change is, big or small, it must be able to link to your culture, overall purpose and vision of the company. Even if management views the change as beneficial, if your employees canโ€™t link the change to the existing culture or organizational purpose, it will be difficult for them to carry out these transformations.’

Questions to Ask Yourself

  • How do I think?
  • How are humans are wired?
  • How to change my mindset?
  • What does success look like to me?
  • How does the human brain react?
  • What’s in it for me?
  • Ways to understand my behaviour?

For me change is good change, change is hard. It is part of the human experience. I found change difficult and I felt insecure about myself, but it was worth it.

I made the toughest decision to close my struggling business and lost my home nine years ago. My family fell apart and as a mum I struggled through the hard times, putting myself in a difficult situation. It’s taken a lot of mental clarity to help me find my focus and direction, it forced me to go to the next level. I went through a very emotional journey, me against the world. Sometimes you need to do you and take a step back to live a peaceful and authentic life. Show up and love them hard, only then will you realise what’s important.

โ€œIn order to change the world, you have to get your head together first.โ€

Jimi Hendrixย 

Eventually, realised I needed to take responsibility for my life and my happiness. Happiness is a choice. I had to put myself first before supporting my children’s mental health. Happy mum, happy child. It improved my confidence and well-being. My life andย  motherhoodย  has been a rollercoaster of highs and lows but never boring. Helping my children was a great way to help myself.

What’s your culture, purpose and vision?

I’ve learned through my journey that doing too much for your kids is not an effective parenting strategy.

โ€œVery often a change of self is needed more than a change.”

A. C. Bensonย 

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Facts Over Fiction โค๏ธ

Stephen King quoted “The most important things are the hardest to say, because words diminish them.

Listen to people, get them to think about their own experience, and emphasize your common humanity. Understanding their own needs and the needs of others is fundamental as we are connected not only by happiness in our lives, but in our struggles, suffering and fears.

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“If you don’t have time to read, you don’t have the time (or the tools) to write.” – quote by Stephen King.

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Made with Love this St. Valentine’s Day ~โค๏ธ

14th February 2021 โ™ก

For all you Nutella chocolate lovers out there spread the love this Valentine’s, with this homemade sweet and rich nutty chocolate spread and high in antioxidants. How about whipping up a jar of your own to serve with waffles, over a slice of toast, or add it into your favourite baking recipes.

My Goodness, My Chocolate is a dairy free chocolate & hazelnut spread, a delicious treat with little ingredients.


Chocolate spread jar on table close up

โ™ก Valentine Chocolate Spread Homemade Nutella โ™ก

My Goodness,
My Chocolate Recipe
Cooking Time
Prep Time:15 Minutes
Total Time:15 Minutes
Calories per 15g:85 kcal per tsp
Calories per 100g:566 kcal
Author:Enza Hebert


1 cup of roasted skinned hazelnuts 1tbsp coconut oil 1tsp vanilla extract 1/8tsp salt 1/2 cup powdered sugar 1/4 cup dark cocoa powder 50g dark chocolate (optional) 100ml of nut milk or regular milk


Put in and grind the hazelnuts to form a paste, add melted coconut oil and blend, then add vanilla, salt, powdered sugar, cocoa powder (you can use melted chocolate) add some nut milk or regular milk until it goes to the liquid thickness that you like. Once finished, pour the chocolate spread into a sterilised jar, cool and keep the chocolate nut spread at room temperature for up to two weeks. ______________________________________


Nutella…. The only reason to buy bread ๐Ÿ™‚
Don’t forget….it’s Valentine’s Day this Sunday
All you need is love & a Valentine cupcakeโค๏ธ

If you make this recipe, please leave a comment, to let me know how you got on.

Happy Valentine’s Day, Sweetheart.

Only Kindness Can Give Wings to Human Understanding โค๏ธ๐Ÿค—

The moment we understand, everything becomes much clearer pushing our frustration and impatients aside and allowing our self-awareness, compassion and empathy to change our own emotions and to see the perspective of another human being.

Full article ~ Read more ~ Understanding is Love

Understanding is loveโ€™s other name. If you donโ€™t understand you canโ€™t love.โ€
Quote by ~Thich Nhat Hanh ~

Stay safe xx

Finding Meaning in the Middle of a Covid-19 Pandemic ๐Ÿ˜„๐Ÿ’–

We could all benefit from focusing more on our own mental health

Mental Health Support has never been so important but we all need to make it a priority. Everyone has a different ideal and if we are to move forward we need to reconnect with our ‘why’ and have the same kind of energy and dedication to support each other to live our best lives.

Support you local community Beautiful video on YouTube ๐Ÿ“ฝ๏ธ

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Inspirational YouTube Video on the 30th January 2021 ๐Ÿ˜„๐Ÿค—

As much as we want to help others in the end it’s up to them to motivate themselves. We need to be with them and not try to fix them. We desire to feel understood and although our struggles maybe different, struggle is inevitable in our lives.

Strength and growth come only through continuous effort and struggle.โ€ โ€” Napoleon Hill

Noone will ever understand and see the pain and struggle we go through to get where we are or have. Nothing can ever be achieved quickly. Nothing can be done without years of hard work. Although we are all humans, resentment and bitterness is the result of one’s jealousy. Complaining wastes time. โ€œComplaining does not work as aย strategy.โ€ Anonymousย 

โ€œThe worst person to be around is someone who complains about everything and appreciates nothing.โ€ Anonymous

Matthew is by far the most motivational speaker to inspire you.

“Look at my success. I didnโ€™t achieve it overnight. It has been the product of many yearsโ€™ struggle, and every year, my times have shown gradual improvement.โ€ โ€” Mo Farah